Relationship has true significance only when it is a process of self-revelation, when it is revealing oneself in the very action of relationship. But most of us do not want to be revealed in relationship. On the contrary, we use relationship as a means of covering up our own insufficiency, our own troubles, our own uncertainty. So relationship becomes mere movement, mere activity. I do not know if you have noticed that relationship is very painful, and that as long as it is not a revealing process, in which you are discovering yourself, relationship is merely a means of escape from yourself.
Extract from The Collected Works of Krishnamurti, via 1
The Outfit:
Hand Beaded Black Silk & Gauze Crinkle Dress: present from my dear Mum many years ago, bought at a craft fair
Peacock Feather Hairband: from Ebay
Black Floral High Heels: very old from the high street
Black Stockings: from M&S
Various Bracelets, Turquoise Earrings & Green Art Deco Ring: passed down from grannies Kiki and Penny
The Soundtrack:
Roberta Flack: The First Time I Ever Saw Your Face
All photographs taken by my dear Mum at my parents' house earlier this year.
The beautiful redhead in the painting is granny Kiki.
While I like to capture some sort of serenity in my photographs, in reality behind the scenes my life is very demanding right now, hence my lack of comments on your blogs over the last week. I'm missing visiting you all, will pop around soon to say hello I promise!
I am delighted to be a part of the next Visible Monday, hosted by Patti from Not Dead Yet Style, click on the website link to see her outfit and those of many others.
LOVE that peacock head band, the dress is divine, your pictures make me so happy...Hope things are a good hectic and you're having lots of fun x
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Suzanne
Roberta Flack's "First Time" is one of my all time favorites and the perfect accessory to this magnificent ensemble. The beaded trim of the dress, which fits with perfection. The heels and jewelry. And of course the lovely peacock headband. Thank you for linking up with Hat Attack!
ReplyDeleteMy life is terribly demanding right now too! But this beautiful post totally gave me inspiration in facing another challenging day. I love you in that dress, and I love the painting of your grandmother, and I love the Krishnamurti quote. Thank you, and good luck with whatever is going on.
ReplyDeleteThe dress is amazing. Those beads on the black fabric of the dress create such nice effect. Love your peacock head piece too, so pretty!
ReplyDeleteThis is a really magical dress. I particularly love the butterfly on it. You're sparkling like the Queen of the Night from The Magic Flute. I hope you will have some magic experiences in that dress.
ReplyDeleteA beautiful sparkly confection of a dress, which fits you like a dream!
ReplyDeleteHope the hectic demands of life ease up soon. xxxx
That is some dress Emalina!
ReplyDeleteI love the little buds on the dress
So wonderful to see granny Kiki
We need a close up of the painting Emalina!
Ariane xo
i KNEW YOU MUST HAVE BEEN BUSY, MY BEAUTIFUL FAIRY FRIEND.
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Ooooooh! Such a richness of textures! Love the detail shots and the glimpse of Kiki looking over your shoulder.
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I love the way that dress catches the light, so pretty and perfect for a dull Autumnal day! Kiki's portrait is lovely, my ancestral paintings are intimidating and scary in comparison!
ReplyDeleteHope you get time out soon! xxx
Know the feeling! Been horrendously busy myself! I love this dress on you - so feminine and pretty. You look gorgeous as always xx
ReplyDeletewow, this dress tells stories ... it fits you perfectly ...
ReplyDeleteSuch a gorgeous dress! From afar the detailing sort of looks like a print of the night sky and stars.
ReplyDeleteSuch an elegant dress and on you stunning! I love these pictures. The white of the beautiful country home is a grand contrast to intense beading of the dress. Oh I love this! Wonderful painting of your grandmother, she looks like she is having a conversation with you!
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You and Cher!
ReplyDeleteYou are gorgeous, Emalina, in this bejeweled dress! Hope your schedule eases out soon. Thanks for sharing with Visible Monday, xo
ReplyDeleteSuch a gorgeous dress. Love the detail of all the embellishments.
ReplyDeleteGorgeous on you!!!!! You look utterly divine. I also loved the quote and saved it to share. I so agree.
ReplyDeleteHope you week goes well, dear Emalina. :-)
Let's try YOUR week. :-)
DeleteStunning! You look as though part of the Milky Way was transformed into a fashionable vision of loveliness to inspire and delight all who saw it here on earth. Beguilingly beautiful autumn look, dear gal!
ReplyDelete♥ Jessica
Very pretty dress and it looks great on you!
ReplyDeleteMy dear... you are your ever stunningly gorgeous self!
ReplyDeleteThe relationship quote... quite provocative... with much truth. Truth I have been looking for. Thank you.
You are a true beauty... inside as well as ought.
xoxox
Tamera
your dress is so lovely! i love all of the little details about it!
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You wear this dress beautifully Emalina! And, yes you do look serene...hope your busy-ness isn't too overwhelming for you. Thanks for taking the time to pop by and leave such thoughtful comments despite the time constraints that life has put upon you. I will say that your blog posts always have me leaving feeling much more serene myself! xo
ReplyDeleteIt's as if you are wearing the night sky :3
ReplyDeleteLovely you, lovely dress. Thank you for the peep into your family home.
ReplyDeleteWe've gotten very good at referential dress design and production over the last decades. Great krinkle dress ... especially good style for willowy you!
That dress is precious and you look so amazing in it. Absolutely beautiful. Love the little buds on the dress. Awesome.
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Lenya
www.fashiondreamsandlifestyle.blogspot.com/
woooow that dress is a stunner. seriously you remind me of an egyptian goddess wearing the stars as a dress, beautiful!
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