Relationship has true significance only when it is a process of self-revelation, when it is revealing oneself in the very action of relationship. But most of us do not want to be revealed in relationship. On the contrary, we use relationship as a means of covering up our own insufficiency, our own troubles, our own uncertainty. So relationship becomes mere movement, mere activity. I do not know if you have noticed that relationship is very painful, and that as long as it is not a revealing process, in which you are discovering yourself, relationship is merely a means of escape from yourself.
Extract from The Collected Works of Krishnamurti, via 1
The Outfit:
Hand Beaded Black Silk & Gauze Crinkle Dress: present from my dear Mum many years ago, bought at a craft fair
Peacock Feather Hairband: from Ebay
Black Floral High Heels: very old from the high street
Black Stockings: from M&S
Various Bracelets, Turquoise Earrings & Green Art Deco Ring: passed down from grannies Kiki and Penny
The Soundtrack:
Roberta Flack: The First Time I Ever Saw Your Face
All photographs taken by my dear Mum at my parents' house earlier this year.
The beautiful redhead in the painting is granny Kiki.
While I like to capture some sort of serenity in my photographs, in reality behind the scenes my life is very demanding right now, hence my lack of comments on your blogs over the last week. I'm missing visiting you all, will pop around soon to say hello I promise!
I am delighted to be a part of the next Visible Monday, hosted by Patti from Not Dead Yet Style, click on the website link to see her outfit and those of many others.
